hmm...whatever u do....DONT use realVNC
its hackers heaven....
u could just use the build in restart command...even put it at lower access control so also certain gm's can restart it. this is what i used, and after im getting L2 back online use again.
just carefully configure ur access levels and u can make anything u want...theoreticly u can make like 200 different types of admin/gm.
u can even set maxed out players to have some gm features, like i did, ppl who made donation could use certain things like free wyverns etc, not big things but just a little advantage that ppl who keep server alive can and may have.
and as soon as i got mysql working again its gonna be back...with C5
